"But as for me and my house we will serve the Lord." (Joshua 24:15)...we have free will...we have choices to make... we can choose to be angry or hurt or we can choose to love...we can choose defeat or choose victory...we can choose unforgiveness or choose to forgive . . . but remember "If you forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:15)...we have choices. .we can hang onto hurts or disappointments...or...we can hand them over to Jesus, then forget about them...Why choose to dig around in sewers when you can look at the stars?...Don't drag yourself down with unhealthy thinking..."For as a man thinks in his heart; so is he" (Proverbs 23:7 Look to the heights...Look to God ..Rid yourself of the muck that that messes up your life...look to life more abundantly...filled with God's glory...think on these things...the true and the lovely... things that are of a good report. .read Phillipians 4:8 and 9... what good does it do to hang on to grievances...saying it is all their fault...who cares whose fault it is...it is only dragging you down. . .why carry heavy weight . . . forgive and give it up to Jesus. . .feel release. . .know peace. . .Don't pollute your mind. . .renew it..."Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2) The choices you make are your choices..."refuse the evil, choose the good" (Isaiah 7:15)...Let us show forth God's love in our lives...Jesus says, "This is my commandment, that you love one another, as I have loved you." (John 15:12)